If your database has the JSON functions, which, I think, were introduced around MySQL 5.7, try the following:
SELECT *
FROM `wp_gf_addon_feed`
WHERE `addon_slug` = 'gravityformscoupons'
AND JSON_UNQUOTE(JSON_EXTRACT(`meta`, '$.usageLimit')) = JSON_UNQUOTE(JSON_EXTRACT(`meta`, '$.usageCount'));